To clarify: I'm saying it's our responsibility to change our behaviour. Inequality of any form is an imbalance of power, those who have been allocated or have taken greater power have I believe a moral imperative to re-balance the power as only they can return it without there being conflict.
For sure women can fight to take back their power, but it wouldn't be nicer for everyone if we (men) just gave it back?
We British abolished slavery without a war, gave votes to people, then to common people then to women. Each one was indeed fought for by individuals but those in power chose to relinquish that power.
Please don't give up on us human's just yet. Sometimes we do good things, and occasionally great things!
There's wide disagreement about whether men should be getting involved in feminist projects. The concern is that men will dominate those as well.
The overwhelming majority of men wouldn't want to participate anyway, because they benefit from the way things are now.